By Lillian Okenwa There are people who spend their lives pouring into others. They are dependable, hardworking and generous. They answer calls at odd hours, remember birthdays, volunteer to help, stay behind when everyone else has gone home and carry burdens nobody sees. Friends rely on them. Families lean on them. Colleagues know they can … Continue reading Echoes of Trauma: The love we deny ourselves: Must I earn the right to matter?